18 All-Purpose Assertive Phrases

Hi folks,Twitter is at its best for me when it delivers something of real value.Today, found an article posted on a Psychology Today blog entitled "Speak Up! 18 All-Purpose Assertive Phrases".I found it really useful - hope you do to! Best, PeterNice Guy counseling in SeattlePS - Twitter hat tip to @psychfeed

By |2017-10-31T19:17:38+00:00October 1st, 2012|nice guys|0 Comments

A Poem for the Nice Guys

Hi everyone,I'm pretty open that I work with people on this journey because it's my journey, too. I'm coming back around to some old stuff from a higher level (we call it the Spiral Path, where you come back around to things, with more skills, tools and perspective) and this poem is a result. I'll [...]

By |2014-12-11T23:09:43+00:00August 8th, 2011|nice guys|0 Comments

Nice Guys and Exoskeletons

It came to me today, that I, like many Nice Guys I know, have developed exoskeletons over the years.What do I mean by that?Well, I was thinking about the habits, skills and strategies I have picked up along the way (since, perhaps the beginning of high school). I was a pretty sensitive kid, a smart [...]

By |2017-10-31T19:17:39+00:00August 2nd, 2011|nice guys|0 Comments

A Quick, But Important Thought for Nice Guys

You will really make a break-through when you take into account how much doing (or not doing) something would disappoint YOU along with how much it might disappoint someone else.It is the balance of these things that makes for good decision making in a relationship.P.S. - many Nice Guys are good at over-estimating how disappointed people [...]

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